Category Archives: Runaway Train

Stopping the runaway train that is whatever predicament you find yourself involved in at this moment.

Our year of living dangerously

or LOOKING BACK IN A PANDEMIC

I know that I am not alone. It’s all a little blurry looking back to life before covid. Heavy traffic, crowds, line-ups, actually seeing peoples faces even. Going to a concert, a movie, a mall or a festival was gone in a heartbeat last year and this one looking like more of the same at least for half of it.

There is a world of people hurting, confused, angry, denying, coping and for the most part, we’re getting by.

Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, TikToc and all the other social media sites have been our only connection to the world and family and friends. It’s also been the bane of our existence in some circumstances. Family members we rarely see physically are now shunning us, or we them, because of differences of viewpoints that we can no longer overcome with small talk. Loved ones are leaving because somehow our point of view makes it impossible to find any common ground anymore.

How did this happen? Why did it happen. Like a multi-car collision that just keeps building, it continues to create victims. Stopping the flow of false news is tough when no one seems to recognize what’s true or false anymore. Getting back to science, medicine and basic human dignity would help but a growing number of people have succumbed to the conspiracies drifting through social media like a tidal wave. There seems to be no common sense anymore. Some have a penchant for believing that maybe everyone is lying to them – so it’s easy to follow the bread crumbs and just fade into a world of fear, hate, and conspiracy. I don’t condone or pander to it. I have tried to have conversations but it’s difficult when everything we do revolves around the pandemic and they think it’s a hoax. There is no common ground any more.

Conspiracies have been around since man could speak and point. We need that ability to question what’s before us and freedom to say what we think. With that freedom comes great responsibility and consequence. If you say something that doesn’t really affect or hurt anyone directly, no problem. If you say something that defies science but still doesn’t really hurt or affect anyone directly, no problem, but now you’re bringing attention to yourself. If you say something that will affect people directly and cause them to put themselves in harms way, now you’re crossing a line. You will get attention, you can still say it, but now the consequences come in to play. Hate, racism, violence, threats are examples of speech that will get you in hot water.

Here’s a little pyramid to help you know where to draw the line and when you’ve stepped over it.

Let It Go

Words to live by.

We convince ourselves that life will be better when we finish high school, when we leave home, after we get married, have a baby, then another, get a new job or move to a new location.
Then we are frustrated that when the kids are old enough it’ll be easier,  we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.
We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our partner gets his or her act together when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice holiday, when we retire.

The truth is, there’s no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges.
It’s best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.

A quote comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said:

“For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin – real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.”

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.
So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time…and remember that time waits for no one.

Stop waiting until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until winter, until your song comes on, until you’ve had a drink…. there is no better time than right now to be happy.

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Work like you don’t need money,
Love like you’ve never been hurt,
And dance like no one’s watching.
Robert Westerburg

 

 

 

Cyclists and the Roadways

While driving in Ottawa’s east end on Ramseyville Rd.  I came upon groups of cyclists (20 or more) riding 3 and more abreast taking up all of the available lanes in an 80km zone.

Don’t get me wrong, I love cycling and I believe in being able to do this just about anywhere, but do you have to have a death wish while doing it?

Please note the laws of the road – as a cyclist you really need to help protect yourself even in groups by not being stupid when you ride.  There’s  enough death and destruction on our highways without adding to it by making entirely dangerous maneuvers.

Clearly below a cyclist or group cannot travel at 80km so they should be respecting the roadways and traveling in single file not globs 3 or 4 deep covering the entire lane.  Every Sunday!

Rules of the road

Cyclists must identify themselves when stopped by police for a contravention of the Highway Traffic Act or municipal by-law regulating traffic. You just need to provide your correct name and address.

Cyclists are required to ride as close as practicable (ie no closer than 1.0 metre) to the right curb of the roadway, except when:

  • Travelling at the normal speed of traffic
  • Avoiding hazardous conditions
  • The roadway is too narrow for a bicycle and a motor vehicle to travel safely side-by-side
  • Riding alongside another cyclist in a manner that does not impede the normal movement of traffic
  • Preparing to make a left turn, passing another vehicle, or using a one-way street (in which case riding alongside the left curb is permitted)

Cycling on the sidewalk is prohibited by the City of Ottawa Traffic and Parking By-law except where it is permitted by official or authorized signs.

Earth Day 2016

 

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A day we take to look at what we’re doing to look after our little blue planet.

Every day when I’m walking  I see signs of the earth around me struggling to take over from the scars we leave.  We complain about people tearing down rain forests, but what about the large concrete seas that are our cities? What are we doing about them?  There is some beautiful architecture that encompasses greenery into its’ design, but do we see much of that?

Walking around my city, there is much greenery to be found.  Ottawa does a great job trying but is it enough?  How do you inspire the populous to take enough pride in their surroundings to stop throwing their garbage everywhere and expect someone else to pick it up?  Shaming perhaps? Fines? (those are already in place no working).

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911 And Your Old CellPhone

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So you got a new cell phone and you want to give your old one to the kids.  You’ve removed the sim card and there is no service showing and it’s ready for them.  There is a well known service that can still be used but we never really think about it being available.  911 can still be used to dial an emergency whether the phone is active or not, yes even without a sim card.  This is mandated by the CRTC to make this service available anywhere 911 services are already available.

Here are some results of people mistakingly giving what they think is a deactivated phone to their kids.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/windsor/mystery-cellphone-calls-911-nearly-400-times-in-sarnia-1.2490496

Here’s another little tidbit of useful info on cell phones and 911 service.

http://www.cwta.ca/for-consumers/e911/

Don’t rely on VOIP phones to get emergency vehicles to you.  Be prepared to give them full info on your exact location.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/technology/tech-news/crtc-cracks-down-on-voip-service-providers/article551933/